Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer. Psalm 19:14, KJV

This thought from Sweet Tea for the Soul gave me pause: “Many people believe they are good, but good without God is irreconcilable.”

It made me reflect on the words we use to encourage others, especially as educators. Positive words matter, but so does the intent behind them. Do our words point others toward God, or do they subtly promote self-reliance apart from Him?

Walking through my school recently, I read the following inspiring quotes posted in the halls:

“We carry with us, as human beings, not just the capacity to be kind, but the very choice of kindness.” – R.J. Palacio, Wonder
“Everyone in the world should get a standing ovation at least once in their life because we all overcometh the world.” – August Pullman’s Precept, Wonder
“What is beautiful is good, and who is good will soon be beautiful.” – Sappho

These are lovely and encouraging thoughts. But as I considered their deeper message, I asked myself, Do they reflect dependence on God, or do they quietly elevate human effort alone?

Another quote came to mind: “You must never be fearful about what you are doing when it is right.” – Unknown

But what defines “right”? Is it shaped by shifting cultural values or by God’s unchanging truth?

Scripture gives us clarity:

“Apart from Me you can do nothing.” John 15:5
“Everyone born of God overcomes the world.” 1 John 5:4–5
“There is none good but one, that is, God.” Mark 10:18
“Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the Lord pondereth the hearts.” Proverbs 21:2

These verses remind us that true goodness, kindness, and victory are rooted in God, not in ourselves.

As Christian educators, let’s be intentional with our words, choosing phrases that reflect God’s truth and direct others to Him. Encouragement is powerful, but lasting transformation comes when our words align with His Word.

Let’s ask ourselves, Are the messages I’m sharing pointing students—and myself—toward God or toward self? 

Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for Your Holy Word that directs me to Your thinking. Help me to focus on Your character so that all my words are holy, acceptable unto You. May all our words lead others closer to You. Amen. 

Copyright Tonie Weddle.

Tonie is a Christian Educators member and a language arts teacher in Kentucky.