- I am scared to go to school. This most recent school shooting is rattling me more than I expected. How can I talk with my principal about my fears?
First off, you are not alone. The recent tragic events in Minneapolis were heartbreaking, and it’s normal to experience waves of fear and anxiety in the aftermath. As educators, we’re called to show up with strength for our students—but that doesn’t mean we have to ignore our own very real emotions.
Start with acknowledging your fear honestly before the Lord. Proverbs 3:5–6 reminds us to “trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” When everything feels uncertain, His promise of direction and presence can ground us.
On a practical level, reach out to your principal. You don’t need to come with all the answers—just honesty. You might say: “In light of the recent events, I’m feeling unsettled about safety at school. Could you walk me through our safety procedures again? And would it be possible to review them as a staff so we all feel confident and prepared?”
This not only helps ease your own anxiety, but it may also be a gift to colleagues who are feeling the same way. Together, you can foster a culture of care, preparedness, and openness.
Most importantly, keep leaning into community through prayer, trusted friends, and your school team. Fear loses its power when it’s named, shared, and met with both faith and practical action.
As Isaiah 41:10 reminds us, “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
Have you had to navigate fear or uncertainty in your own school setting? How did you stay grounded in the truth?
Let’s learn from one another—drop your story or encouragement in the comments below.
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